On June 7th I turned 26! For my birthday I did a few things: We drove to York, PA to visit my family for the weekend and in CT Eric took me out with friends to Olive Garden. Spending time with friends and then visiting family is a great way to spend your birthday.
Here are some pictures with the family:


My reading of Eric's Birthday Card:
Family Singing "Happy Birthday" or trying:
Monday, June 23, 2008
My 26th Birthday!
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Saying Goodbye "See ya Later" to Great Friends!
June 2nd has been a sad day! Amanda and Josh Dishmon, our next door neighbors and CT best friends, have moved. Not just a few hours away, but clear across the country to Monterey, CA. I am so excited for them. They are moving to a beautiful area in a fun state. They are going to have amazing stories while living in CA. They moved so that Josh can go to Navy Post Grad School in Monterey. They will live there for about 18 months before returning in Groton, CT for a few months.
Clearly, this has been a tough time for Eric and I. It has taken me next to two months to be able to blog about it. I told Amanda that I probably will not really be able to discuss her and Josh moving without crying, for a long time. When you live far from home your friends become your family. Amanda and Josh have become like family to Eric and I. Since they lived next door it was almost like being back at collage. I could stop by and chit chat with Amanda at any time. Eric and Josh could play Mario Cart or Guitar Hero when every they felt like it. If we needed girl or guy time we could go to each other's apt. It was great for large gatherings, because we had twice the space.
It was a comfort for Eric knowing Josh and Amanda were next door if I ever needed anything: like opening a can or killing the largest bug ever! It was a comfort for Josh knowing Eric and I were next door especially when Josh went underway. We were just there for each other and we understood each other.
The day Josh and Amanda left was very hard. They had stayed with us for a few days before leaving and we helped them pack and clean. But it didn't hit any of us until they packed the car and we carried their cats out and said goodbye or see ya later. (Side Note - I don't say goodbye. It is too final. I may say bye or see ya later, but never goodbye.) I cried for a while, but had to pull myself together. I had to go to school. I was able to make it through the day, but for weeks I would break down at random moments. Eric, on the other hand, didn't make it through the day. After dropping me off at school he returned home and slept until he had to pick me up. He was too sad to do anything. As she said, "It was one of the hardest goodbyes he has ever had to say!"
Josh and Amanda,
Here are some pictures from our first "excursion" to out last almost all-nighter.
Block Island:





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Almost All-Nighter:

Amanda, Rachel, and I

Josh, Kyle and Eric

At Devil's Hopyard


Our last picture as neighbors!


Even two month later this was still very hard to write!
We miss you guys! ~Love ya~
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Jim and Jen's Wedding
Jim and Jen were married on Saturday, May 16, in Pittsburgh, PA. Eric and I made it a road trip to Pittsburgh. We picked up Jarrett in CT and went to stay with my folks in York, PA on Thursday night. Then Friday morning we drove the 4 hours to Pittsburgh. Our hotel was right across the street from the reception. Everyone stayed at the hotel: Jim, Patrick and his fiance Katie, Troy and Jesse, Jarrett, and a lot of Eric and Jim's high school friends. The wedding was beautiful. Jen AND Jim both cried. It was very sweet. We all had a blast at the reception. It was fun visiting and reminiscing with everyone all weekend long. Here are only a few pictures form the trip.
Eric with the Bride and Groom
A Great shot of Eric and Jim
The Boys!
Eric and I
Troy and Jesse
Patrick and Katie
A Perfect picture describing the 4 guys - Eric, Jarrett, Patrick and Troy
Patrick having fun dancing with Mrs. Bisti.
At the end of the night we all gathered in a big circle, sang and swayed to "Piano Man"
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The Edisons visit
The Edisons live in Sarasota, FL. They have been close friends with my parents since we lived in Florida over 20 years ago. Mr. Edison helped my dad in Eric and my wedding. It was great visiting with them. 



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Laura's new Puppy - Nika
In the middle of May Laura got her new puppy. She got a Siberian husky. Her name is Nika! She is adorable. Nika likes to visit Uncle Chuck! (Harley - my parents 100lb golden retriever) They wrestle and play all the time. It is so funny to watch. I can't wait to see what she looks like when she is full grown!




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Monday, June 9, 2008
Jim's Bachelor Party
Eric spent the weekend with the boys camping in the Delaware Water Gap. Here are a few pictures from the weekend.
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Happy Easter
We were able to go down to York for Easter time and Dad's first Sunday back to the pulpit after his sabbatical.
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The First Dent!
It is official. I made the first dent. When reversing out of my parking spot at school, I reversed into a car illegally parked directly behind me. Of course no matter how you slice it I was going in reverse so it was my fault, but I was definitely going to fight it. I lost.
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